We often attach feelings with others and when our feelings are not reciprocated the same way ,heart gets shattered.We stop talking to them,our behaviour toward them takes a "U" turn,treachery creeps in, but is this justified.
NO.It is not.
Many a times we pray to God to give us this and that..But if we do not get it ,we never start hating Him .Likewise we should not hate others if one act of theirs does not go down well .We should understand that "one swallow does not make a summer ".It might be that their intentions were honest but we misinterpreted them.
Difference between flower and weed is judgment and the judge in our life is the almighty so the right to punish or reward someone should be left upon him .
Moreover whatever our expectations are with others' , are never for their good but for ours.Our desires flow sans bound .Err.....No no ,flow is stagnated whenever it reaches the slope of general welfare.If it is so what can be done?
Elixir to all this is -
Never capture your relation in the shackles of expectations.Everyone wants to live life on his own conditions and rules.If it is so ,why be a intruder then.It is in our nature to be a hoarder.Hoarder of friends, feelings, desires and admirers.But we do not understand that this hoarding is ultimately making us greedy,and it will hurt to the deepest when anyone of these will be lost as things which cannot be replaced by money creates such a vacuum which cannot be refilled.Be self enabled so that you do not have to live on others largess.
Do we like our parents keeping check on us?
Do we like our girlfriend marking boundaries for us?
But we like keeping watch on others activities.
We like to make rules for our girlfriends(do not talk to him,him and him...bla bla bla).
When we do not like hypocrisy then how can we have two set of rules.One which applies to us and one which applies to others.We should try and understand that authority is the antithesis of liberty.So do not act God in others life and never get angry with anyone.
"Do good and throw it in the well".
Whatever it is ;there is one question still lurking in my mind-Should not we say anything to others if we are not liking their act ??
If u have an answer do send it.
Sunday, October 26, 2008
Friday, October 24, 2008
Editorials are of no use.
Who needs to enrich their views -those who are educated and well read or those who are still uncanny in their behavior and need to be reformed?
I suppose latter is the correct answer.
Educated class reads English newspaper , spends time in good company,knows what is wrong and which path will lead to a enlightened society .These people generally have all what is needed to lead a happy and secure life.As the saying goes "The more you have,the more you are occupied,the more you are occupied ,the less you give", similarly this bunch of self satisfied people will not offer anything to this ailing country save for lip service.
Complacency is our enemy but we are so badly wrapped up in the cocoon of lethargy that now not even a crane (machine) can pull us out of it.
So it is a waste of talent of Sunday columnists ,in fact all columnists who write throughout the week, that they write in some English newspaper.
They should write in Hindi or any other regional language because reforms can be brought about only by those who need it not by someone who will be least benefited or might even lose some privileges when the mala fides will come to a grinding halt .Moreover , i think complacency leaves very less room for selflessness.
Changes can be brought about only when what you want is what you really need and no Hitler will ever want to establish rule of Jews.
When downtrodden get angry they vent their ire by creating mayhem on roads ,damaging property because they do not know the solution to the problem they are facing.
So these well read and knowledgeable editors should spill the beans of their knowledge where it is most needed and these needy i do not think read English newspaper or listen chat shows broadcasted in English. Those who watch these shows just watch it to forget the daylong fatigue.
How many good reporters and editors are from Hindi media??
Bharka Dutt,Rajdeep Sardesai,Sashi Tharoor,Swaminathan Anklesaria,Jug Suriya,Chidanand Rajghatta ,all report and write in English.
Have we ever seen protest march in which protesters are blue collared people.?
Have we ever noticed educated class engaging themselves in riots?
No.
So all editors should take a cue from this and should start writing for regional newspapers.
I suppose latter is the correct answer.
Educated class reads English newspaper , spends time in good company,knows what is wrong and which path will lead to a enlightened society .These people generally have all what is needed to lead a happy and secure life.As the saying goes "The more you have,the more you are occupied,the more you are occupied ,the less you give", similarly this bunch of self satisfied people will not offer anything to this ailing country save for lip service.
Complacency is our enemy but we are so badly wrapped up in the cocoon of lethargy that now not even a crane (machine) can pull us out of it.
So it is a waste of talent of Sunday columnists ,in fact all columnists who write throughout the week, that they write in some English newspaper.
They should write in Hindi or any other regional language because reforms can be brought about only by those who need it not by someone who will be least benefited or might even lose some privileges when the mala fides will come to a grinding halt .Moreover , i think complacency leaves very less room for selflessness.
Changes can be brought about only when what you want is what you really need and no Hitler will ever want to establish rule of Jews.
When downtrodden get angry they vent their ire by creating mayhem on roads ,damaging property because they do not know the solution to the problem they are facing.
So these well read and knowledgeable editors should spill the beans of their knowledge where it is most needed and these needy i do not think read English newspaper or listen chat shows broadcasted in English. Those who watch these shows just watch it to forget the daylong fatigue.
How many good reporters and editors are from Hindi media??
Bharka Dutt,Rajdeep Sardesai,Sashi Tharoor,Swaminathan Anklesaria,Jug Suriya,Chidanand Rajghatta ,all report and write in English.
Have we ever seen protest march in which protesters are blue collared people.?
Have we ever noticed educated class engaging themselves in riots?
No.
So all editors should take a cue from this and should start writing for regional newspapers.
Monday, October 13, 2008
Prayer:holding in mind what we desire but not adding desire to it
"God" is the name which is highly misused just to comfort us while in problems .
Has it ever happened that you went to a temple and prayed for someone else...no;if yes it is only for our near and dear ones from whom we are covertly or overtly benefited. Reason -selfishness.
We moan the loss of only those who are of some help to us.Have we ever cried for the victims of Bihar flood or China earthquake.????
Do we ever long or pray for good marks for our class mates???
Do we ever rejoice if our colleague gets promotion???May be we do but only till the treat is pending.
Ask anyone -"why do you love your parents"???
Obvious answer-"because they are very caring".
Hidden meaning-we love them only because our very existence is because of them.
Does not this reflect selfishness????
When we are no more dependent on our parents ,then the above question changes to "why do you hate your parents"?
ans-"coz they are a big liability".
Similarly praying to god is no devotion but vocation to keep the doors for our success open.
When in a place of worship we follow all the norms and traditions(removing shoes outside,putting a cloth on our head) ,we try to portray us in best manner we can.But come outside we become complement of what we were in---back bitching,jeering,mocking,teasing.
Sometimes we do good to others only because of fear (paap chedega).it is not because we feel for them.
Jihad in the name of god.
Christian killing in the name of god.
Felling Babri masjid in the name of god.
I wish there is no God otherwise tomorrow may be Hindu God will be killed in the name of Muslim god and muslim god in the name of Christian god...
and if there is no god who will take care of us.
(find selfishness in the last line).
Has it ever happened that you went to a temple and prayed for someone else...no;if yes it is only for our near and dear ones from whom we are covertly or overtly benefited. Reason -selfishness.
We moan the loss of only those who are of some help to us.Have we ever cried for the victims of Bihar flood or China earthquake.????
Do we ever long or pray for good marks for our class mates???
Do we ever rejoice if our colleague gets promotion???May be we do but only till the treat is pending.
Ask anyone -"why do you love your parents"???
Obvious answer-"because they are very caring".
Hidden meaning-we love them only because our very existence is because of them.
Does not this reflect selfishness????
When we are no more dependent on our parents ,then the above question changes to "why do you hate your parents"?
ans-"coz they are a big liability".
Similarly praying to god is no devotion but vocation to keep the doors for our success open.
When in a place of worship we follow all the norms and traditions(removing shoes outside,putting a cloth on our head) ,we try to portray us in best manner we can.But come outside we become complement of what we were in---back bitching,jeering,mocking,teasing.
Sometimes we do good to others only because of fear (paap chedega).it is not because we feel for them.
Jihad in the name of god.
Christian killing in the name of god.
Felling Babri masjid in the name of god.
I wish there is no God otherwise tomorrow may be Hindu God will be killed in the name of Muslim god and muslim god in the name of Christian god...
and if there is no god who will take care of us.
(find selfishness in the last line).
Tuesday, October 7, 2008
are non marathis not hindus!!!!!!!!!
sh*v s*na and its child party (a)M.(n)N.(a)S(s) claim themselves to be the protector and benefactor of Hindus......bull shit ........ in fact pig shit.
My question to them- are non marathis not Hindus???
These so called "hindu nationalists" are nothing more than a bunch of illiterates who having got no jobs ended up making already filthy politics a deeper dungeon of feces(read regionalism,despotism,elitism,optimism,racism, sexism,terrorism and weightism(weight hea refers to "aukat" based on "jaat").
The names of the Hindus all over Hindustan are more or less same with a little variation here and there. In North, it is Ram, in South it isRamachandran or Ramanathan, in North it is Krishna, in South it is Krishnanor Krishnaswamy, in North it is Narayan, in South, it is Narayanan, in Northit is Mahadev, in South, it is Mahadevan, etc.
but these a**holes as i wrote earlier are illiterates so i do not expect them to decipher any sensible meaning out of it.
Majority hates them.
Only those who find themselves to be incompetent to fight for a place in jobs,colleges etc etc supports them .
But mark my words ---even if all the job vacancies, college seats and even train tickets are made exclusively available to marathis they will further shrink their sight from state(read marathis) to cities(puneri,mumbaikars ...so on and so forth).
There is no end to this.
This all is opportunism .
opportunity for the party leaders to feed themselves and their generations.
In the name of fighting for their communities they are just fighting for themselves .
To support my viewpoint here is the list of number of contestants from shiv sena who fought and lost in elections (some even managed to make it to the assemblies).
1971 Parliament contested-5 won-none
1980 Parliament contested-2 won-none
1991 Parliament contested-22 won-4
2002 Goa Assembly contested-15 won-none
1998 Parliament contested-79 won-6.
They detest Islamic terrorism but shiv sena itself has a suicide squadron "Balidani Jatha," ("sacrificing group") which has at least 21 members. The squadron was involved in violence in Kathua, Jammu and Kashmir on July 14, 2008.
God save India from these fanatics.
The Sena has been accused of being involved in coordinated political violence in order to propagate its ideologies and attack opposing ideologies. For this reason, it has sometimes been described as a militant right-wing group.
so enough......jaago bharat jaago.
My question to them- are non marathis not Hindus???
These so called "hindu nationalists" are nothing more than a bunch of illiterates who having got no jobs ended up making already filthy politics a deeper dungeon of feces(read regionalism,despotism,elitism,optimism,racism, sexism,terrorism and weightism(weight hea refers to "aukat" based on "jaat").
The names of the Hindus all over Hindustan are more or less same with a little variation here and there. In North, it is Ram, in South it isRamachandran or Ramanathan, in North it is Krishna, in South it is Krishnanor Krishnaswamy, in North it is Narayan, in South, it is Narayanan, in Northit is Mahadev, in South, it is Mahadevan, etc.
but these a**holes as i wrote earlier are illiterates so i do not expect them to decipher any sensible meaning out of it.
Majority hates them.
Only those who find themselves to be incompetent to fight for a place in jobs,colleges etc etc supports them .
But mark my words ---even if all the job vacancies, college seats and even train tickets are made exclusively available to marathis they will further shrink their sight from state(read marathis) to cities(puneri,mumbaikars ...so on and so forth).
There is no end to this.
This all is opportunism .
opportunity for the party leaders to feed themselves and their generations.
In the name of fighting for their communities they are just fighting for themselves .
To support my viewpoint here is the list of number of contestants from shiv sena who fought and lost in elections (some even managed to make it to the assemblies).
1971 Parliament contested-5 won-none
1980 Parliament contested-2 won-none
1991 Parliament contested-22 won-4
2002 Goa Assembly contested-15 won-none
1998 Parliament contested-79 won-6.
They detest Islamic terrorism but shiv sena itself has a suicide squadron "Balidani Jatha," ("sacrificing group") which has at least 21 members. The squadron was involved in violence in Kathua, Jammu and Kashmir on July 14, 2008.
God save India from these fanatics.
The Sena has been accused of being involved in coordinated political violence in order to propagate its ideologies and attack opposing ideologies. For this reason, it has sometimes been described as a militant right-wing group.
so enough......jaago bharat jaago.
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