We often attach feelings with others and when our feelings are not reciprocated the same way ,heart gets shattered.We stop talking to them,our behaviour toward them takes a "U" turn,treachery creeps in, but is this justified.
NO.It is not.
Many a times we pray to God to give us this and that..But if we do not get it ,we never start hating Him .Likewise we should not hate others if one act of theirs does not go down well .We should understand that "one swallow does not make a summer ".It might be that their intentions were honest but we misinterpreted them.
Difference between flower and weed is judgment and the judge in our life is the almighty so the right to punish or reward someone should be left upon him .
Moreover whatever our expectations are with others' , are never for their good but for ours.Our desires flow sans bound .Err.....No no ,flow is stagnated whenever it reaches the slope of general welfare.If it is so what can be done?
Elixir to all this is -
Never capture your relation in the shackles of expectations.Everyone wants to live life on his own conditions and rules.If it is so ,why be a intruder then.It is in our nature to be a hoarder.Hoarder of friends, feelings, desires and admirers.But we do not understand that this hoarding is ultimately making us greedy,and it will hurt to the deepest when anyone of these will be lost as things which cannot be replaced by money creates such a vacuum which cannot be refilled.Be self enabled so that you do not have to live on others largess.
Do we like our parents keeping check on us?
Do we like our girlfriend marking boundaries for us?
But we like keeping watch on others activities.
We like to make rules for our girlfriends(do not talk to him,him and him...bla bla bla).
When we do not like hypocrisy then how can we have two set of rules.One which applies to us and one which applies to others.We should try and understand that authority is the antithesis of liberty.So do not act God in others life and never get angry with anyone.
"Do good and throw it in the well".
Whatever it is ;there is one question still lurking in my mind-Should not we say anything to others if we are not liking their act ??
If u have an answer do send it.
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2 comments:
Hey,
You have grown up! :p
Great post GD! It was really readable and was exactly a stitch in time for me. Please keep writing :)
And yes, I think we should tell people if we don't like their act, because true love doesn't bind. It liberates ;) Just how, that we have to figure.
Hey GD,o yess u haaaav grown up :-)It is very true, that v misinterpret people a lot many times,n later feel guilty wen we realise that their intentions were gud, or they did it unknowingly; yes, i too think that u must tell the other person if u don't like ne of his/her acts,but choose a suitable time to tell him/her, otherwise things might become worse...keep bloggin :-)
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