Friendship cannot be forced

Others give us an inch and we take a mile.
We are so hungry for love and affection, that we never realize- we are trespassing into the "irritation zone" and after we have broken into our friend's comfort zone ,the friendship or acquaintanceship ceases to be so and it becomes liability ,thereon.Thus the treatment we receive always has an element of ignominy in it .What we receive from there onwards is not response but reaction.

I thought i was lucky to find a friend was so hard to say Goodbye but i never realized that what i consider to be "good luck" is actually 'bad luck " for ...

But we are so obsessed with... that we do not understand this sign language and take these erratic and undesirable gestures of our (i don know what to call them but for the time being lets call them...)friends as the result of some shortcomings that must have been there in our behavior and so we try harder to win their hearts and this is where we lose the plot.

Whose fault is it?Ours or theirs ,is very difficult to determine.But what can be deduced from this is that we should always be restrained while expressing our feelings and emotions.Now a days thread of friendship is not so strong that it can bear everything ,from jokes to jibes.So treading cautiously on this line of fire is the ultimate remedy (from becoming unwanted).
As it is, now a days time is a scarce commodity and we try to make it more less available by imposing ourselves on them, eating into their reading time,study time,gossip time ,music time...
When we develop feelings for others what we do is to keep them engaged in our talks even though we are blathering.What is to be learnt here is that ..to grow any relationship we need quality talk not quantity talk.Thus ,try be stoic in your approach.(at least from now on i will try for that)

In my view completely neglecting the person who always had good intentions for you in not a right thing to do(even though his excessive talks irritates you).Instead of insulting others what can be done is ....i dont know what...but i know this much that there must be some way out.

There is one line which ,the person closest to me once said-"If i get to know that i have 24 hours before i die then i will spend rest 24 hours to find a person who will take care of you just as i do".
One who said this line is now very far,as good as dead,(...sorry for using the 'd' word but i did not want to use any euphemistic term here) but before leaving me, that person never found anybody for me, who could have taken that place which is still lying vacant...