Sunday, February 15, 2009

i think of her...but she thinks only of him.

God is never partial .If he gave men physical strength and authority to rule this world(though now women are not far behind,in fact they are getting ahead of us), he blessed the fairer sex with a rarer blessing-CHOICE(not the pill).Choice of choosing( which generally cannot be associated with men)their partner.Girls are like dictators ,who can dictate terms on poor guys .They have the heavenly power - who to keep as a keep and who to throw out of their life.Whatever it is, girls cannot be blamed.Actually the problem lies in the fact that ,we think love is incomplete without unification .Thus for men:lass lorn is world gone.
I think there is a really big conspiracy behind this trend.May be by this way God hopes that one day we will understand the true value and definition of love as the saying goes -"too light winning makes the prize light".So to make us realize the true worth of true love this is being done to us(read men).
I looked at a flower and thought it was the most beautiful thing i have ever seen.I thought it to be Glory lily but it was China berry(this is a poisonous flower while the earlier one is not).
Why its always boys running after girls?Why girls never show slightest of interest even though they have soft corner for a person.Either they are too shy to express their feelings or its nothing but unnecessary show-off of misplaced attitude.
Valentine's day is fast loosing its significance.Reasons-
Sudden emergence of thousand new saffron parties has made PDA(public display of affection) next to impossible and on top of that girls now a days are also becoming too selective.God knows what they actually want.Girls are not understanding that everyone cannot get Shahrukh Khan.
In this time of recession ,it is getting worse for flower vendors,gift shop owners,restaurant owners to earn their living because girls are just not ready to commit themselves to anyone.
On 14th Feb i saw florists sitting idle,restaurants and Archies showroom empty.Outside were guys sitting alone hoping to find someone while inside shop owners were hoping on their hopes.Even i was alone, wondering ,how can my jolly nature,high stature and heavy coffer not win me a girl.I think even God is feeling the heat of recession.Mr. Cupid(God of love) i guess is short of arrows.I request God to make some rich people less rich but please provide dear Cupid with credit so that the game of love continues.
In this time of misery and disappointment(read recession) only emotional satisfaction can be a remedy for every one's shattered hopes and for that we need love all around.More and more new couples.So let us take a pledge that from now on we will act Cupid in every one's life and will help others to find their love.One more humble request-Girls please do not be shy to express your love.Your efforts are desperately needed.

5 comments:

Gayatri said...

Dear Gaurav,
Love will happen when it is meant to happen, we should not crib abt not having a girl/boy friend...It depends from person to person whether to express their feelings or stay mum.And it's not jus girls, many boys too are scared to express their true feelings for girls...may be they jus wait for the right time...Girls do not expect to get Shah Rukh Khan; in that case even boys shud stop searching Katrina the likes in their wives/girl friends.Dreaming abt sum actor, or being a die hard fan of him dusnt mean they expect their husbands to be like him.Even if they do,it shud not be a prob 'coz soon with age,they'll realize that they hav to accept wat they hav got..Think we all must accept people the way they are... What makes u think its always girls who GIRLS decide whether to keep a boy as a keep and it's girls who dump 'em ????!!!Boys are not angels my dear :) No offence,jus expressed my feelings :)

g_d_22 said...
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g_d_22 said...

dear gayatri,
i agree but i am already in love with someone.Though it's a one sided affair .All what i have expressed is what i have experienced throughout this tumultuous love ride.It has been fun sometimes and sometimes disappointment.All i have written is to bring down the disappointment and to give my lady love a hint that do not be reticent in revealing feelings.Beyond that it is nothing.I generalized this version of my saga to avoid hinting her straightaway as i fear i can lose my friendship in lieu of lifelong commitment.

dr@g0n said...

Dr@g0n's view...


I think we all think that the only source of love in a person's life is his/her partner. If this article is all about a relationship between a boy and a girl, then there will always be a lot of conflicts in opinions.

Talking about love, we should increase the meaning of love. And there many sources for it. Friends and family are the most common ones. And the sources may vary for individuals.


Talking about your feelings. I think God does not do anything. He just gives us the energy as a resource. He has given us mind to think in ways to consume this energy. The concepts like cupids are very good for cartoons and animations. If you feel anything for her, then I would say that discussing the things is the best possible option. The only thing I would expect everyone to be discussing things in the positive manner. Even if the results are not favourable, the relationship that exist should not hamper.

That's all i have to say...

Keep blogging my yellow dr@g0n, you are always on the latest happenings...

mini246 said...

i tried playin cupid once...burnt my wings...sob sob.nvr again